At what point will the C know that it's "safe" to force your wife to work on her issues?
Have you ever had a chance to air your intense dissatisfaction with your sex life? I know in the beginning it was Yes Hairy we will get to that later.. But have you ever had the chance to say, I hate our sex life and have told her that I will not tolerate being sexless forever.
Something about uttering those words out loud--in the presence of another--would give them an urgency and seriousness that your W may not have heard, otherwise.
How many LD wives do we see here on the board say, I knew he was unhappy about our sex life but I didn't REALLY get it until he left me.
Here is something else for you: My D3 has turned into a comedian. Everywhere we go she tells one of the 2 jokes she knows. It is hilarious. The first joke is pretty funny (coming from a 3yo) and goes like this: What does a spider eat with his hamburger? French Flies! The second joke she made up and makes no sense but so far people laugh anyway.
