Quote: I'm kind of surprised that counseling hasn't helped your situation more simply because it should have "disclosed" how wacky your W's stand on the sex issue is.
HD... When H and I went to MC, the thing that moved us along was my H could no longer feel justified in his treatment of me...he was "called" on his behavior. What does your C say about your W's attitude towards sex? So far, other than the enneagram and some affection building exercises, all I see going on here is you are now labeled with another deficit. Is she confronting your W's deficits?
