Nop: You're right. I have nothing left to lose, and everything to gain, including my self-respect.

She has set a boundary that she will not tolerate me touching her breasts while she is sleeping. Okay. Boundary noted. I have set a boundary that I will not tolerate her coming up to bed after I'm asleep and trying to engage me in conversation. Sounds reasonable. Yet she still tries to do this. I intend to hold her to the same standards as she holds me to from now on. (Talk? Right now? After I've been sleeping for 20 minutes? Sure, but prepare to have your breasts fondled while you're asleep.)

Thanks for the advice, all. MC appointment at 1:00 today. Got a list of subjects to address.

Hairdog