Oh Mooka, I am at a very different crossroads. Divorced, now getting ready to sell our "dream home." H has bought his own home and is living there with OW now. I never thought my life would turn out this way.
I am so very happy for you.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.