Quote: so basically when we have sex is totally driven by his schedule
Having a friend (ED) that is fickle and only shows up once in a blue moon is a tough act to scheduel ahead of time.
I can also see why he MB, No pressure if he needs more time. Imediate feed back, the mind can signal the hand several times a second to what is working. And I can see how you would feel cheated too.
There were some book recomendations on Lillieperl ED thread. Do you read the ED thread? Would my post to Lil about her MBing with her BF work for you?
I is difficult to give advice because everyone is so individual. I can listen and give my opinion to your questions.
What might work for a few people might not work for you or your H and I know what I feel are my feelings and your H might feel or do differently.
