Red grapes, even red wine, raisins and raisin toast if red meat is not high on the desire list may help with the anemia.
BTW I agree with GEL you have to move out of the comfort zone for anything to change. Outside of stating the obvious that you're not her dad and you simply wanted to help getting the toaster and building a life together again. Hang in there.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
