OK...so AOS, I'm trying to get a more "animal husbandry" style of AOS. But all I'm able to get is a "Jeeves" Butler, handyman and even delivery boy. Try to get her to AOS for you personally, not the laundry and such but possibly a favorite meal something more tailored to your personal side.
A shampoo? maybe including scalp massage?...think she'd go for that as a place to start?
NO! Maybe you should give her a shampoo! an AOS for her so her appreciation level goes up and you have "cash" in the love bank. Hmmm going to have to try that myself!
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay