You guys are heading the right direction. Just sit back for a bit and concentrate on speaking her LL for awhile, see what her reactions are...they may improve once she sees her needs are being fulfilled in they way she needs....often that results in her wanting fulfill your needs in your way.
It's awfully tempting to want to push right now, once you start getting the crumbs you want the whole slice don't you? Perfectly understandable...but work on consistently speaking her love languages and seeing what her reactions are to different things. Also, when she does do something physical that you like...don't hesitate to tell her "mmmmm, that was nice" or something along that line. She needs to know her action are appreciated just as you need to know yours are.
