Hi Spiny - I just wanted to say "welcome". I don't have any advice for you but wanted to say you are not alone. Your title caught my eye because I have an alcoholic (functional one who doesn't drink every day) H and lately he has been LD and lost all affection. I would say he was somewhat HD before the drinking and I was more average drive. We were always affection before (hand holding, cuddling, kisses hello/goodbye, etc.) Anyway, I have checked out the site that Lillie recommends and its great. I'll be watching and reading what people recommend to you. Thanks for sharing
SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
