(((((((((((((((((((CALLY)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) You are being very strong and that is great. I think you are doing the right thing here. There are lines that have been drawn, and if you let H trample those lines, he will then start trampling you too.
I am very sorry to hear that things have progressed this way. Maybe H will get a slap of reality across his cheek, and that will knock the fog out of his head.
Don't cave, keep that spine straight! I hope you are handling this okay. I know how hard it is to face this sort of thing, and how easy it is to avoid conflict and stay with the status quo.
It sounds like your H's resentment and entitlment may come to a screeching halt shortly, after he sees that you are very serious.
