Quote: I've had many a day when I've felt just about the way you're feeling now. Recently I had a thought that was either very perverse or very differentiated or some combination of the two. I was thinking I ought to tell my H that if he wants to have sex with some other women that would be alright with me and I wouldn't even "retaliate" by stepping out myself because I am sick of feeling like I am in competition with some sort of fantasy woman. Sort of the ultimate "If you love something, set it free..." mindset. Actually, I did say something kind of along those lines when we were fighting recently and maybe that's the reason why I've gotten laid 4x this week. What I said was "Please feel free to leave me and go find a woman who doesn't want to have sex with you to lust after if that is what you want.".
JJ I have said this same thing out of anger. I have also suggested that if he can't satisfy me maybe we could open up the marriage for me to step out. I told him I didn't think it would be fair for him to because he don't like sex that much. Deep down that is not what I want. I want him to love and desire sex like me and with me. JJ Is your husband also very immature about finances and what have you? Like expects you to be a mommy kind of?
