I let him know yesterday through a letter before work that I did want to get seperated. I asked again that he move out. The reason for the letter was that I didn't see him yesterday as we are working opposite shifts right now. But I made it clear that I thought I just couldn't do this anymore. My b-day reminded me of just another year gone by and not much has changed. I want to find someone that could be able to fullfill all my needs, and I wanted the person that I am with to feel happy that I am willing to fullfill all their needs also.

Nut sure if he is taking it seriously. Seems he is just acting a jerk instead of a man who is about to lose everything. He went out gallavanting all day while I was at work. He couldn't do a thing around the house to work while I am working more hours then him. He couldn't even cook the kiddos the meal I left out ready to cook. He had to take them to McD's. Oh and he created him a screen name on the computer and erased all the e-mails and his account I had saved on the computer for the dating site. I had it saved under H cheating folder. I'm a little mad about that because I did tend to use that if this comes to a divorce.