Quote: When you confront your husband, you want to do that from a place that makes him feel 'safe'. He is not going to listen to you if you bang him upside the head with a book (speaking figuratively). He is not going to listen when you get 'nasty' with him.
Nop...point well taken. I will think about this often. I am going to try approaching him again using this way instead.
Thanks for the advice and the belief in me that I can do this.
I realize I must love him. Because today I am reflecting as it is my b-day today.....I can remember saying on my 29th b-day, man I am getting to old to be in a marriage like this. I need to get out while I am young if this isn't going to work. Here I am on my 34 th thinking wow now I am 34 years old and still in this SSM.
