I see what you are saying...but I suspect that if he should show up and he sees her there...he's going to feel trapped and caught. But, you never know the other might happen.
But how would you feel if you were in her shoes and your spouse showed up, not knowing it was you who would be there. IMO there would still be a BIG problem.
I am thinking if I showed up for one he would be crapping his pants. Also agree he should and would feel trapped. But deep down if I showed up and he was there waiting on what he thought was another woman..I would be ticked off and soooo hurt.
