Quote: I suspect that if he should show up and he sees her there...he's going to feel trapped and caught.
Point taken. How did I miss that?! An embarrassment when you consider that I list Cheaters among my guilty pleasures.
Quote: But, you never know the other might happen.
Call me an optimist there.
Quote: But how would you feel if you were in her shoes and your spouse showed up, not knowing it was you who would be there. IMO there would still be a BIG problem.
I can certainly see where you're coming from. This brings to mind the urban legend of cyber-lovers who find out upon meeting that they were father and daughter.