I don't know what else to say! You are such a sweetheart...you don't deserve this kind of treatment. I'm not a violent person but I'd gladly take a punch or two at your H on your behalf...even if he WAS just doing this to "get your goat." It's not nice and it's not fair to you.
Stay strong. I've said a prayer for you and your children...and your H too. Let God lead you to the right decision here...even if it is not what you think it should be!
Take care o' you. One more time. (((((((((cally))))))))) K