My response to his...he just did it as a joke to get your goat was....BULLSHIT!
"IF" he did intend it as some cruel joke...then that's exactly what it was, intentionally cruel, intentionally mean, and out of line. But my gut says it was no joke. He put it out there....he will get bites off of it from OW and he darned well knows it. But now he can use this "it was just a joke when I signed up" to playdown when W do contact him. If I were you....I wouldn't fall for this.
IMPO...he's crossing a line and he's expecting you to be ok w/it because now he can blame you of "checking up on him"...so he did it because he knew you'd be checking....just to check if your checking...know what I mean? All the while taking the focus off of the real problem between the two of you.
