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This kept things calm and friendly even tho I was seething inside


Stop seething. Just stop. Don't let yourself have thoughts about this sitch. Just plain don't go there. God WILL grant you patience, but you have to meet God halfway-- you have to practice. Having an attitude about the fact that this woman works there will get you Exactly Nowhere. In fact, your attitude starts to make the OW look pretty good. And I don't mean put on a smiley face while seething inside-- I mean: stop seething. You can do it.