Quote: No specific allegations about other women, but I think she's wondering. I guess a more specific reminder about her choice to D and my willingness to talk again about 'us' if she wants to revisit that choice?
I wouldn't suggest bringing it up. She may be looking for reassurance somewhat w/all the other changes she has seen in you. She knows your available now, and may be wondering what to do. Just keep the focus on actions, not words here.
Another thought here w/the GM grief. Like UD said, maybe you could offer to help out w/s the day of the funeral so she doesn't have to worry about him. And then take the Wes approach and say you could have some coffee later and talk about it. Then keep it focussed on that sitch and nothing else.
Your PMA sounds a lot better than mine does today, keep up the good work! T
PS. Oops, forgot about you giving up the coffee addiction. Oh, well.