Yes, I agree that if a male LBS were to do the "wink, wink, how about it" move with the WAW, serious injury to the R as well as to some key body parts may result. I wasnt recommending or planning such hara-kiri, I was just kidding. For sure, for the male LBS the chicken comes firmly before the egg.
Regarding Jo's excellent insights on what works for her though, I am confused how one distinguishes these AOS moves from pursuit? I don't know if a WAW would take kindly to such display of interest in the R from the LBS. I dont think it would work?
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
I wasnt recommending or planning such hara-kiri, I was just kidding. For sure, for the male LBS the chicken comes firmly before the egg. 
