Ha! My thoughts exactly, Jo. It'd result in a big bop on my nose! maybe later tho....
How about more recent actions that softened you toward him (even tho you're the LBS, your view is very valid cause he's still a guy and you're a women. IMHO, the some of the pattern will be the same).
UD, thanks for relating about your sitch. I think the patience issue is big. For me, the only way to help shut off the crazymaker is to realistically acknowledge the great amount of time it will take for both of us to change in a lasting many - sad to say in some ways, but 3-4 years sounds about right.
maybe later tho....
