As Michelle and others note - "Love is a choice." The WAS is choosing right now not to love the LBS. Just like there is likely no love at first sight, there will likely be no magical cure to the S/D sitch, with the WAW running back into my arms. Instead, it will take a slow, building of a new R - work that can start when the WAW gets curious/interested/attracted to the LBS once more and begins to slowly open her heart once more.
Then with many deposits in the WAS' "love bank" (5LL), the LBS can hopefully help build things to a level where the WAS decides to go for the chance at a new R in a many that is really yet another leap of faith. A new choice to love.
