You are perhaps making too many assumptions. I have gone through those patches of feeling like my WAW has lost all feelings for me on a periodic basis. But then we are still here two years later hanging by a few threads. And I know for sure that her feelings are not gone. So, from my experience, things ebb and flow. Your feeling that GAL activities need to be ratcheted up makes perfect sense.
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
