Quote: YES! We only want support! It is more important to us to be understood than "fixed"!
LISTEN to this guys. I know it goes against every fiber in our body, but the wise lady is telling is something, so LISTEN and act accordingly.
Gabe, you are doing an tremendous job, far better than I could get myself to do. Your patience is telling and I suspect being noticed. I do not know if I could do all you have done. X has gotten so far into this self-sustaining mode (always has), I doubt she would ask for help. Once said, she had to stop depending on me. Ironic.
