What if you had a flat tire and couldn't muster the strength to get the lug nuts off? Should we just provide understanding? (Big hug to Martha. So sorry you can't get the lug nuts off. I hope everything turns out all right for you.)

But okay. I'll assume unless she wants the lid off a jar of pickles that all she wants is support when she is complaining.


In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt