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I find that to be a rather broad sweeping statement and a dangerous one at that. My ex husband is career military. He has been military for nearly 24 years and our marriage overlapped his military career. I never once saw any evidence that he had his military training mixed up with his relationship with me.



I don't understand your post. You said this, but then went on to demonstrate exactly how and why passive men wish to take orders from their wives. If they didn't get their relationship mixed up with their military training, then where does this "order taking" thing come from?

I'm sorry if I sound like I have a bad attitude. I love my "fat, passive, old man." Yes I have low self esteem. I've gained weight from being on Lithium. Jane Pauley hasn't.

Thanks - I will print out your post and think it over more.

Last edited by heartfocus; 06/26/05 01:13 AM.