Well I actually doubted that most people were talking as graphically in RL as on the BB. Anonymity frees us.
Re giving head - guess GGB's described it when he said his wife is squeamish. Partly it's the unknown - what if I don't like the taste? What if I don't want to swallow? What if it makes me gag and so makes H feel bad? To me it feels like the way I felt the first time I jumped into water over my head - I feel I need to screw up my courage to just do it the first time and then it will probably be fine.
[What is that old joke - "3 famous lies: the check is in the mail, I won't come in your mouth, ... " I forget the 3rd. But I guess there's some sentiment out there that women aren't always happy to have men come in their mouths - the fact that some women feel that way doesn't make it right or good]
Is the fact that your H no longer does come in your mouth, even though you wouldn't mind, significant? Does it represent a change in your R?
Doglover
Quote: Oh Doglover, I couldn't talk about this stuff IRL either. ... Just curious about the coming in your mouth...is it the taste that you want to avoid? Or having a mouth full of it? I don't mind him doing that (though he no longer does)
There are many wise, empathetic and funny people here: you are my buddies - I'm grateful for your support.
