Oh Doglover, I couldn't talk about this stuff IRL either.
I mean, some of the more mundane topics, sure, but to talk about specifically what it is I get from giving head? No way! I still have only disclosed to 1 of my 4 sisters that I am the HD partner in my marriage. I like to talk sex with my girlfriends but it in no way approaches the graphic nature that I sometimes do on this bb.
No I don't physically get anything out of a BJ, but my H doesn't get anything, physically, out of going down on me either. He likes it because it is a nice place to be, and because it gives me pleasure. I feel the same about him. Plus, as JJ and I have related elsewhere, we are both object-oriented when it comes to our sexual desires so seeing a d*ck up close and personal is very arousing to me. Him telling me how much he loves me is much much less arousing, if it all. I DO tell him I love him during sex, many times even, but it doesn't increase my arousal. We are all different huh!
Just curious about the coming in your mouth...is it the taste that you want to avoid? Or having a mouth full of it? I don't mind him doing that (though he no longer does) but I would swallow it very quickly rather than let it sit there in my mouth for any length of time. Sometimes I would just let it gently flow out while I continued the BJ. Ah, such good memories!
