Quote: Some Enneagram books say the Four didn't bond with either parent, and in fact, any given child's reaction to divorce may very well have a lot to do with their Enneagram type.
That's interesting. My sister who is a classic Type 4 has always said she didn't bond with either of our parents. I feel like I bonded quite strongly with my father and also my maternal grandmother. I was left in the care of my grandmother, great-grandmother and another older Polish woman much of the time when I was a baby. My first memory is of running back and forth down a wooden floor in a hallway because my grandmothers both wanted me to snuggle with them in their beds. Now nobody wants to snuggle with poor Type 7 Jenny. How sad and ironic.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
