I can see how you might get that impression off the BB, I don't see that one myself. In RL the CeMAR-ish men that I run across....I avoid. On this board, true he frustrates the he** out of me, primarily because I see him making the same stubborn mistakes my Dad has/does make in my folks M....I've seen this for a long time now....so I have attempted to try to help him, which only ends up in more frustration.....I'm pretty much at the end of my rope with him though. Sexually speaking, I wouldn't go there....men like him would definitely not be someone who would attract me.
