I think I really need somebody who speaks "LDese" to translate my H's behavior for me. Since our big blow-up this weekend, we've had sex 3x. Twice on evenings after he's worked long hours.

I have two theories:

1) I finally said something that clicked with him during our fight this weekend and he realized that I am no longer going to accept any form of "blame" for his LD so the ball is squarely in his court and he's taking action.

2) He is currently dreading the thought of asking his doctor for a testosterone test more than the thought of regular sex. He recognizes that getting a testosterone test is something I might reasonably expect him to do and therefore if he would rather just go ahead and have more frequent sex than get tested he has to recognize that that is a reasonable expectation also. Kind of like a 5 year old who's tummy-ache suddenly disappears when his mother says "Fine, you can stay home from school if you're sick. Now where did I put that cod-liver oil?".

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver