Quote: I would be quite amazed if any regular reader of this BB had much sexual attraction towards me because I reveal WAAAY too much. I mean I feel like I show up on this BB in my raggedy old Grandma underwear much more frequently than I show up in my hot new purchase from Victoria's Secret
JJ, from what you write I think you would be desirable to many men who were not looking for the perfect body. That perfect body image is for "teen age-minded" boys. I think most guys are a little slow on the learning curve when it comes to the biological processes we call aging.
Like I said before, Go to WalMart and look at couples. Some are almost perfect body types, while others apear to not have seen where their water comes from in ages. It amazes me to see so many body type combinations and the couples are holding hands at the store. But who knows what goes on behind closed doors?
Seeing BB when pregnant, the way she looked ( worn out) after delivery, the breast cancer / radiation, and all of the other things she had to go through and thinking to myself, "what would I look like if I had to go through all of thost things" makes me accept bodies the way the are if they are doing something to try to stay attractive.
That is the physical and I hear your mental raggedy old grandma intent too. Life is a series of ups and downs. Just because you post about the downs, does not make you a raggedy old grandma. You post about what is good in your M. You post what you do to improve your M.
Maybe I show up too much on this bb in my ink and toner stained work pants too, but that does not make me a weird-o. We are people with short commings, needs, wants and many, many assets.
The c*nt word from your H is over the line. I have heard the term used by some of the deliquent boys I worked with and during the 25 years I worked in auto repair shops. Most of the time it referred to women who did not seem to understand the point the guy was trying to make. It was not refering to anything sexual.
I heard women use the term "d!ck head" when refering to men who refuse to listen to them or men who just don't seem to get it.
Trying to be honest but not cross the line of not being respectful.
