Quote: However, I wonder how much of CeMar's CeMarishness would persist if he were to, for instance, spend a year on a desert island with me
Nice thought even for me. I suspect he would be happy. I am also seeing you might think many men are picky like your sometimes PIA H, which some are not as picky.
I can just guess in 30 days he would be swimming in joy. A year desert island might get lonely even when you have yout favorite toy and are with your favorite person.
Not to get personal and this is not about spending a month with anyone, but if Cemar were female and I had to spend a month with her, I don't know.
If I had to spend a month with you it would be a good thing because you post your troubles, your adjustments, your attempts to make you and your H happier. You do way more, or at least write about what you are working on to improve your situation. CeMar post that he is doing his share to help make his W happy, trying some things but mostly post what is missing and seems to be asking for more than most women have to give.
I know I post my troubles too, but I do post what I do to try to improve my M with BB. Anyway the effort is what I look for.