lol Thankyou LP. I am sitting at my computer at work chorteling out loud. I love the mental image.
OK, so maybe I sound a bit too dead serious. But at least I'm trying.
(One of MrDL and my more amusing moments recently was as I described to him "the butterfly" - a remote control vibrator described recently on this BB which can be worn under clothing. We were walking down the street at the time and began to imagine the various public situations in which one might wear it and which of us would get to hold the remote).
Doglover
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Quote: SO I have taken a 2 pronged approach on my own LD. 1) I am exploring my own enjoyment of sex. Why should H have all the fun? I remind myself that I have a right to feel good too. H wants more sex but we don't do it just for him - it's for both of us. I'm tatooing on my brain the slogan "I like sex". This focus on my own pleasure is very reinforcing. 2) From time-to-time I've hired a local college student...
"...from the football team to come over and help me locate and stimulate every erogenous zone on my entire body. I'm committed to this process-- I don't care how tough it is!"
Am I the only one who thought/feared that's where that sentence was going?!?
There are many wise, empathetic and funny people here: you are my buddies - I'm grateful for your support.