Quote: SO I have taken a 2 pronged approach on my own LD. 1) I am exploring my own enjoyment of sex. Why should H have all the fun? I remind myself that I have a right to feel good too. H wants more sex but we don't do it just for him - it's for both of us. I'm tatooing on my brain the slogan "I like sex". This focus on my own pleasure is very reinforcing. 2) From time-to-time I've hired a local college student...
"...from the football team to come over and help me locate and stimulate every erogenous zone on my entire body. I'm committed to this process-- I don't care how tough it is!"
Am I the only one who thought/feared that's where that sentence was going?!?
