Quote: And "no" I as not dissing CeMar. I am stating I like to have emotional and a sexual/chemistry thing going on before I think abou getting it on. I guess I run along the lines sex/ML is a long term activity where one should have other common interests. I an not a Wam, bam, thank you mam relationship guy. Having some respect and admoration for the other person does a lot for me.
I agree. I'm making an admission, not bragging when I say I can enjoy sex on a purely physical level sometimes. It's absolutely true that sex that is based on purely physical attraction is not much basis for a relationship. However, I wonder how much of CeMar's CeMarishness would persist if he were to, for instance, spend a year on a desert island with me. Would he eventually start complaining that I couldn't possibly love him because I didn't prepare the pineapple just the way he likes it or didn't wear my grass skirt in a pleasing manner or would he be so happy to finally have his sexual needs met that he would mellow beyond recognition?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
