Quote: I gotta say recurrent UTIs would probably make me LD too.
I empathise with BB completly. In a way, the UTI's are making me LD too and at the same time very frustrated. At first, her options she would talk about, were no sex or just suffer the infections which I took as, her not willing to try to look for solutions. It's all up to me. For a while I was trying to figure out how to be room mates, kiss a little, hug a little and not let the SL I miss turn to resentment.
It's taken BB about 2 months to do much talking about options and only after me saying I might have to medicate my feelings by doing more things by myself, mostly because she did not want to come up options, talk about some ideas I thought would work. She refused to discuss them.
Quote: On their wedding night he was unable to function because he believed that female genitalia was supposed to look like it does on classical marble statues.
I think I read a short thing on the internet about her life post D. Quite liberated post D and some good sex in her life as I remember. Way to go I say to her.
