I agree with Wes. What is best for you and your kids at this time? - For you to get a job which will raise your PMA and also put some movement in your sitch. Since your X decided to move out and is confused about why he divorced in the first place and all that, unless you can swing asatisfactory job that is close to him, would it not be yoru best option to find one that keeps you comfortable? Just questioning to see why you are having difficulty making the decision about the job. Is it because you dont want X to perceive it as being MOTS behavior? I recall your mentioning a while back that your X felt that you WA first?
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
