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that for LB women that their walk aways respond to their wife when they have given up and moved on.




I've seen this too, it has worked twice in ex and my R/M. But then we seem to just get back in the cycle and it ends up as not working again. I'm pulling back some, but just to keep an eye on the sitch.

Since that comment "why did we get divorced?" came up once in our convo and once in talking to my parents; I'm going to keep moving in that direction. Let him wonder why we did!

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He'll draw his own contrasts between you and other women.




And have the contrast of me before and me after div!

GAL efforts: keeping up on the exercising.
Put a few things on the web to clean out my old stuff and sold two books already. This time I am looking at it as an opportunity to share my stuff and if I make some extra $, that will be a bonus.
Still working on the job issue. Applied to two more this am.
And working on making a trip to Mich, if ex can't make it up here this weekend.
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