I did it! I left ex a message to call me, which he didn't get until very late tonight.
But he called me and I told him about his ex's convo w/me.
Wow! Just like Gabriel says on his thread. Ex and I had a very interesting convo. He spent almost two hours on the phone filling me in on the whole sitch w/ss14. Some of the things she said were only half truths.
It sounds like she is in a panic over losing her son to his dad. She screwed it up, by wanting to give him up to the courts, but since ex won't sign off on him; she is now being watched by cps and may lose the rest of her kids. And she's probably trying to enlist my support against ex!
He rambled on for most of the entire convo. Hasn't made up his mind about how he is going to handle all this legal stuff. But says he has to try. I validated a LOT!
I also said if there is anything I can do to help, or just need someone to talk to, let me know! He kept saying thanks for this and for letting him know about her phone call.
And, I did mention to him my comment to her that "if we were still together I would take ss14 in a heartbeat!" (didn't really wrap this into an R talk, we just laughed and said that probably has her p!ssed!) Ex said she wouldn't even get on the phone when he called there tonight.
Since he unloaded quite a bit on me tonight, and he knows I'm here for him; we will continue working on the friendship! T
