Ours has been very complex, the reason most of my family says not to see the option of a new R w/ex!
And I did realize yesterday that I don't tend to put much of my history down here as he has found me on past bb's and used the info against me. But that doesn't really matter now!
Personal changes, I've still managed to keep at my optimal weight (i could still stand to lose 5# but everyone else says no!) and dress and keep myself in good shape. (other than cigs and caffeine, which I am still trying to kick! - how in the world did you give up coffee, Gabe?) But most of that is unnoticed since he hasn't 'seen' me in 3 months.
The PMA was good the last time we talked and I'm keeping focused on me and my kids, not him; so it should remain high.