Thanks for sharing that info. It paints your sitch as a bit more complex than how I first pictured it.
H is gonna need a good amt of time to sort out this mess. I'd imagine lots of guilt and worry, and the use of distraction (Ex: OW) to deal w/ it now.
Your role of being the stable one, keeping your household intact, and pursuing great jobs, is key. T, what sort of personal changes have you tried - in terms of appearance, dress? Anything that will turn H's head or make him go 'hmmmm!'? Also, have you been able to keep your PMA in his presence?
