Quote: Now that he may have an OW in his life, I feel more determination to move back and make him own up to it. Am I crazy or what?
I meant to say, that I want him to own up to the lies if that's what they are.
And I want him to see my PMA and Gal efforts even more now.
Until I get the full story, I don't know if there really is someone else or not. At times I have suspected an OW and now I only have tainted confirmation of it.
The hardest thing for me to let go of tonight, is the lying. His ex was very believable on some things she said, (this had to do w/k's not ow) and it is just leading to my confusion. I don't know who to trust at the moment. (other than myself and fellow bb members. )
But I am still going to focus on the job issue. And I will still favor Michigan strongly on this, as I have family and s8 will see his dad. I will have to work more diligently on that, as I see him as a WA dad to 3 of his k's now.
And for now I may just step back on showing any interest in him. (can't change my attitude too much as he will wonder what has happened!) I keep thinking of all the positives that I seen last week, and will just let him keep making the effort! T