I haven't heard anything back from her and I am holding out on calling her yet. She can be prone to gossip, so I don't want to act anxious in hearing whatever her problem is.
But that is part of the problem, not knowing what this could be about. I would never say we were close, but since I would be taking care of her k's at times, I would keep it friendly between us. We haven't talked since before the div tho.
The call from her being after midnight is puzzling. I would have blown that off but she called again at 6 am, (I had shut off the phone tho!) I do know that she talks more regularly to ex than I do, but she could be calling about something totally unrelated to him.
So, I am keeping my PMA up! (have to!) and looking at the glass half full yet. Whatever she is looking to tell me will probably get back to him and I don't want any negatives at this point.
I've seen a lot of positives from ex in just the last two weeks, (a few negatives, but not many!) and think we are in a good trend right now. I have just stepped back from the sitch to make sure I don't over react w/whatever happens next.
No new developments on jobs yet either. I sent off a good 20 resumes yesterday to jobs in Michigan, but many of the automakers are on shutdown this week. (yearly changeover) I'll probably send a few more out today and tomorrow, and keep the momentum going.
So, Gabe, I am just hanging here! But w/a positive attitude! T
and looking at the glass half full yet. Whatever she is looking to tell me will probably get back to him and I don't want any negatives at this point. 
