I don't know what to say. Your sitch has become a little confusing in the past couple of weeks. It almost seems like you are the WAW, not your H!
I mean, he is contacting your parents and saying all these hopeful things and you are trying to keep your distance from him. What gives?
I guess so many things are happening that things are in a period of flux and confusion. E.g.: 1. Your job search. 2. Feedback from your parents. 3. The paper fiasco. (Do you think your ex engineered things so that the paperwork would fall through?).
Perhaps clarity will emerge when you have finally settled on 1.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
