But since confusion is prominent; I'll keep posting. Maybe I am beginning my own MLC!
Ok, I went back over the old mail from ex, there was three different court letters, and I had them mixed up last nite. I was thinking that I had to have a reply in by May 1, but it was my copy just stating that ex needed to file our div papers by May 1. It seems he hadn't done that since Feb and after 90 days the case is thrown out. When I talked to my atty's office in June, she said she still hadn't rec'd any papers. So now I am really curious if I am div or not?
On another note, I did go off a bit on ex over not calling when I we got home last nite. Sent him an email letting him know that I was upset and wanted to talk to him this weekend and that I thought it was rude and asked him if he hated me. (I know this was totally against d/b, but I am tired of having to wait around for a phone call)
He waited before he replied and sent a very pleasant email asking if we enjoyed the 4th and that no, he is not mad at me.
This is beginning to feel like our roles have been reversed! but maybe my changes have started something here. I just don't know how to proceed at this point. I have found a few jobs to apply to in Mich and still keep some distance between us. (I have eliminated most of the state tho w/my restrictions; I don't want to work near Detroit, near ex, or in the u.p. where it gets so cold!)
I guess that's enough rambling for the nite, time to get to bed!
