Sounds a lot of MLC dysfunction to me. This includes depression, poor memory and inability to think in rational ways. Your ex seems to be experiencing all of these. The 3x calling is a good sign. It indicates to me 1) curiosity (perhaps even concern that you may be GALing) and 2) that you were on his mind for a period of time.
At this point it seems to me that your ex is suffering from incompetence and an inability to handle his day-to-day activities (MLC) rather than unconcern for you.
Stay strong. You are doing admirably.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
