Coming out of the dark!

[Just_Me]

Side note:
Ex was all out of breath when he answered the phone.

I just realized this - he only has a cell phone.

Why would he have to run, when he carries this on his belt?

I feel a little stupid now, I interrupted something.

Now whose crazymaker is working overtime. He wouldn't have bothered talking if he was in the midst of what you are thinking. There are plenty of ways to get out of breath besides running to the phone or having sex. I think it's a positive that he talked to you for quite a bit.

You have the opposite problem of me. My ex doesn't talk much and yours talks too much. But your sitch is better....you can listen and validate. That's something I need to do more of. It's great your PMA was up and you wanted to share your job stuff with him. His sharing was probably his way of showing interest. I think it's good. He could have heard your news, grunted, and said bye.