Ex is definitely his father! We went through all that last year somewhat, ugly custody battle to the point of scheduling a DNA test, and as that cost over $500; ex finally said no point in it. Right now I tend to think he is acting like a sore loser, he didn't win any custody rights (his own fault-he gave in; I was willing to go 50-50) but the only loser is our s. I tend to think that he doesn't want to see s8 since he will have to see me, but who knows!
Back to the lighter side; I replied back to his email last nite w/a flirty email. (which is hard to flirt in print!) said stuff like ... try and stay cool, (at least you guys can take off your shirts!)
On the anniv issue. I sat down and wrote out somewhat sentimental stuff last nite. haven't sent this out yet; just thinking I might send it as a note of here's all the good times I remember of being w/you. I listed down some things as the day he proposed, the day I told him I was pregnant, our sunday afternoon drives, his surprise of getting me a car (it wasn't my bday or anything!) and our late nite coffee shop trips. Just going to say that I remember the good times on our anniversary date.
Well, I just got off the phone w/a company in Minneapolis and had a recruiter call me from Tennessee. Both sound very interesting from the career standpoint, but not for visitation. I am uncertain at this point to put us too close to ex and have him reject s8 even then. That would hurt, but don't know if he would go that far. If only a job closer to him would come up! I would push to keep the relationship w/s going. T
