I agree, you have to do the things for yourself first without a whole lot of regard for the ex. It will definitely give him pause I think. I hope that he'll find a way to be in your son's life a little more. Know what? I think you are where we all should strive to be. Happy with what life is without regard to our spouse. Thanks for continuing to provide some inspiration.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
